It's hard to fathom . . .

the venom that can come from my BIL. Now, he's spewing to my mom, since Raj and I aren't taking his emotional abuse. I've found several leads for his housing, free to him as a Medicaid recipient, and sent a lot of information to him Saturday regarding additional assistance. He has options, but isn't really ready for that, so I screen phone calls/emails until he can communicate with civility, and I try to protect my kids from the reality that he values money/possessions and hate above all else. Makes me sick to my stomach.