All I want to know . . .

is why I don't have access to the Estate assets to pay Raj's brother's bills? Since I've spent pretty much all funds available on those expenses, I now need to sell the land (immediately - Ha! not gonna happen) or sell the remaining stocks from the Estate. I can't. I also found out that as things are now (with Raj's claim being paid by the private disability insurance we paid into all these years), he'll NEVER qualify for Medicaid, no matter what happens to all assets!