Monday, May 30, 2011

A May to Remember

This has been an eventful month! After a successful short sale closing on Dave's house, Raj received the official "release" from foreclosure proceedings.
It took all of April and May, but we now have medical/dental/vision coverage in force for all 4 of us (hope to have a corrected bill generated by tomorrow so I can pay the right premium!); I have Raj signed up for Medicare A & B, as well as a Medicare Advantage plan, to commence June 1. Thank the Lord his pass-outs have lessened in frequency, so no emergency care was necessary during our lapse in insurance!
I researched and found Emeritus, a better fit for Raj's assisted living care and our budget. He is now moved into this facility - within our own suburb, and a stone's throw from most of his medical providers. By some miracle, he found his lost wallet right before the move!
The bills from Raj's stay at Rush have begun to arrive, so I'm working with a 3rd party to reduce them to a more manageable level. There's also RUMC Financial Counseling, which I'll work with after insurance, to explore any additional help.
The Line of Credit we had on the Wauconda land came due, so I paid off that balance, incurring unexpected fees, while coming up with the 1st half of Lake County property taxes ($4,260). Why they collect the 2nd half of the taxes in only 3 months, I do not know.
My Financial Advisor and her partner are retiring, so I've had an initial meeting with the replacement, and he'll have his work cut out for him! I've become rather creative in saving/finding cash flow - paid surveys, cashing in points from various reward programs, selling the remaining silver and gold, selling sporting equipment/DVDs/electronics, accepting help from Mom, stopped saving for retirement/college, taking only essential medications, . . .
It's exhausting.
Oh, and we (read Ruth) adopted a shelter dog named Daisy 2 days ago!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

The good, the bad, and the ugly

Good: Short sale on BIL's house closed 4/21; Estate sale company sold several items on consignment & sent a check; We're looking at other possibilities for Raj's assisted living;

Bad: Raj's termination from Allstate was processed incorrectly, and needs to be fixed before we can enroll in COBRA, so we're "on hold" for all medications/appointments; During Raj's stay at Rush, various out-of-network doctors decided to bestow him with visits & tests (separate from the pre-approved stuff he was there for), and now we're receiving HUGE bills; Sunrise increased their price for Raj staying there TWICE so far in 2011; Still have a bunch of stuff to sort/store/throw from the house clean-out;

Ugly: Sorting through and cleaning the BIL's house was truly awful, especially on short notice - the smells, life forms, lack of help/money, uncovering the years of deception and what we were really paying for . . . it makes me sick.